I have nothing to congratulate nor curse to you on your big day.
It has been long enough for you to feel free and fly, live your life the way to you wish you would. Be happy with your family, I know you could be a great father to your child and a fantastic husband to your wife.
Remember that we may experience the past together for almost a decade but from today onwards, you will start perceiving things in a brand new perspective. please live well.